From Christian’s perspective.
Sexual life is a taboo subject for some and a public topic for others.
It is true, sexual life belongs to private life but at the same time is one important substance of our human being. Therefore addressing sexual issues is a common topic of discussion which sometimes can touch the limit of obsession especially among the young but not only among them!
Because there are so many points of view including churches addressing issues openly within the Christian perspective it’s not awkward. Rather it’s justified by the extent and confusion (The bible uses the word lost) in a field on which depends largely our bodily fulfilment with consequences in our soul.
I am encouraged to approach openly topics with issues included in it. I am energised to do this because I saw attitudes of God toward man’s sexual life. He approached primarily in an open way from His perspective saying trenchantly these things.
So, I lined up my view to God’s panorama because I understood that He wants us to be versed to be informed of the cause. And after we to discern his will in all this mixture of good and evil in society. God said that his people perish because lack of understanding or because they didn’t keep God in their knowledge. Especially if we choose as being well what he calls bad we can go in the direction of separation from the Lord with all the consequences including Dead in our sins.
Our site provides a platform for discussions openly with declared intentions to know and prove the will of God, not only because He speaks the truth but because He is the Truth. In the same way he guides us to the life of our soul, because His will is also good pleasant and perfect.
Let’s talk about:Nocturnal Emission Discharge
Nocturnal emission or discharge is a sensitive topic and belongs to private sexual life. There is discomfort to talk openly about this topic because you expose yourself to criticism or to different opinions, with consequences that result. For all this is a very common problem faced by many people especially young, and because there is much confusion, including areas of Christian churches.
How can a nocturnal emission be a sin if you have no control over it, or it happens when we sleep? Many of us can have this question?
Some may have their own answers, and go in this direction:
It is not a sin because nocturnal emission is a natural bodily function. Our human body naturally relieves itself. It just happens! Nocturnal emission are very common for men. Men that experience a wet dream or natural discharge is unclean but not a sin because the issue is what’s “going on in the mind”. They can include in their explanations bible arguments too: We are unclean until the end of the day. Conclusions are these:
It is sin only in the case that emission comes from sexual stimulation like porn or, because nocturnal emission is a natural function and you have no control over it.
Bible Arguments: Then the priest shall offer them the one as a sin offering. The priest shall make atonement for him before the Lord because of his discharge.
“If any man has an emission of semen, then he shall wash all his body in water, and be unclean until evening. This is the law for one who has a discharge and for him who emits semen and is unclean.”
“If there is any man among you who becomes unclean by some occurrence in the night, then he shall go outside the camp; he shall not come inside the camp.”
B. Another opinion is:
Everything that God spoke is unclean and every disobedience is a sin too, because it can separate us further from the Lord. If we will not follow his steps of reconciliation God says we are dead. A sin which unlink us from God asks death. Everything that detaches us from God asks sacrifice. It is not important if we do it unintentionally. God knows discharge is possible buy occurrence, But he didn’t say that it is not a sin. Interesting the Lord does not accept emission or in time of war!
Because an army tries to justify themselves for these actions. If only one person practices, God said He will turn away refusing to defend them. If we are unclean until the evening then why does God ask another seven days after one day unclean then he shall be clean? And on the eighth day the creator asks a sin offering and a burnt offering.
Ejaculation involves a quantitative accumulation of hormones. Yes ejaculation and accumulation is an inborn processes belonging to natural functioning of our glands. Our glands have abilities to produce hormones. They have a very important role for our body, not only for intercourse. However regarding sex for us to reach ejaculation, conscious, dreams or not, it means that gland secretion is stimulated to come up to the top to be finally discharged. Our body is besieged by sexual information that causes stimulation through 5 ways vision, hearing, touch, smell and taste. Therefore it matters what kind of data we accept. We can lose control of our minds when we sleep, but we can have direction over what kind of wisdom we receive. We can select the biggest measures of information, But news remains and is stored in our conscious and subconscious. From there our minds manage facts during its own way. Daytime we can have discipline but night we have no control over our mind. Our mind is like a computer not waiting for us to click to access something.
If we speak about discharge, how and when did this occur?
What is discharge at night?
An orgasm involves a process of quantitative accumulation of sexual stimulation, erotic, sentiment and not only these. How did this happen if you did not watch TV, or the internet etc.?
Answer most likely your conscious or subconscious gathered and stored in folders of your mind. How has this happened? God only knows. One thing is certain, it handled the whole database that you have accumulated over years. Not only information from previous evenings. Today we are exposed day and night under various forms of information more or less erotic, whether we want it or not consciously or not. If your body is or was exposed to this direction, then yes it’s natural for our body to have this reaction. And it’s possible our bodies were open to sexual information.
In the end, nocturnal discharge is unclean and a sin as effect but also in cause. Because if the cause is eliminated then the effect disappears.
Bible Arguments are:
“Then the priest shall offer one as sin offering and the other as a burnt offering, and the priest shall make atonement before the Lord for the discharge of uncleanness.”
“Thus you shall separate the children of Israel from their uncleanness, lest they die in their uncleanness when they defile my tabernacle that is among them.”
And when he who has had discharge is cleansed then he shall count for himself seven days for his cleaning and wash his clothes. Bathe his body in running water then he shall be purified. On the eighth day he shall take for himself two turtle-dove or two young pigeons and come before the Lord to the door of the tabernacle of meeting and give them to the priest. Then the priest shall offer them as sin offering and the other as a burnt offering. So the priest shall make atonement for him before the Lord because of this discharge.
Leviticus 15: 13-15-19- 28-29
If a woman has a discharge and the release from her body is blood, she shall be set apart seven days. Whoever touches her shall be unclean until the evening. But if she is cleansed of her discharge, then she shall count for herself seven days and after that she shall be clean. On the eighth day she shall take for herself two turtle-dove or two young pigeons, and bring them to the priest to the door of the tabernacle of meeting.
Would Jesus have experienced everything like a man?
Yes, because Jesus was fully God but fully man.
Indeed Jesus was fully God and fully man but the Bible said that he was tempted as we are but was without sin, in mind, body and soul If he could have had the smallest sin including nocturnal discharge he couldn’t have been a perfect sacrifice, and satisfied the justice and righteousness of God. Christ’s sacrifice couldn’t have been accepted as a holy sacrifice.
2 Corinthians 5: 21
“For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.”
“For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathise with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.”
The Bible does not mention Jesus succumbed to any temptation, because he had no sin. Scripture also says that Jesus did not bring sacrifices for his sins, he had no reason to do so. If God is perfect and Jesus is His embodiment, and nocturnal ejaculations happened without His will, then God created something (human body) which cannot be controlled in-depth. If Jesus was God and he had discharge that means God cannot direct Himself! He has no self-control in this problem! The Lord can command the universe, but cannot master the Bodily function of a human being!
In the times of The New Testament God sent Jesus as a living example. He was tempted like us, but God said that he was not a sinner and he did not sin. God Himself found Jesus sinless. Christ had conquered the world with temptations. He was enticed like us but he was not like us. If he sinned, made a minor transgression, or would have done something unclean, in this situation he would not have been a perfect sacrifice without blemish. The act of our reconciliation with God and the restoration would be compromised. He was human but the highest human form, which mankind is called to be.
Can we say discharge is sin only from sexual stimulation, through various sources including sex and pornography whilst masturbating?
- A. first opinion: Yes, it’s a sin.
- B. second opinion: Yes, it is sin because, in majority of situations, emissions can come from external sexual stimulation, but not only these.
The term masturbation is derived from the Latin word Manus meaning hand and Stupratio meaning defilement. In our world it is accepted. Masturbation is seen as normal and part of exploring sexual behaviour and self-gratification. Self-Stimulation is common human behaviour said to occur in around 90 percent of males, and 60 percent of females. Stimulation of the genital organs to a climax of bliss and excitement. Masturbation is self-pollution and in excess can be anxiety related. Contemporary films often show it as part of sexual life. Female masturbation can be done in many ways from horse-riding, cycling, by the rubbing sensation that occurs. Both men and woman experiment daily during childhood. Sexual pleasure, self-pleasing, or gratification, is learning awareness of one’s body. It can be an act of self-love or to release tension, but is not purity outside marriage. Masturbation is a self-centred practice that does not acknowledge sexual gratification has been designed by the creator as an act shared within marriage. You become one with your wife. Self-gratification can become addictive, strong faith in The Almighty can stop this. We need to respect our bodies and use the Word of God as a shield to our thoughts of lust and desire. Masturbation is a weakness. We walk in the flesh, and need to pray asking our High Priest, Jesus Christ through The Holy Spirit to clean us and walk in the Spirit. Gods Law clearly says in many ways it’s a sin, unclean, and not Holy. In context can we really question this: would Christ masturbate?
Categorically, no! We can understand this from God’s attitude regarding Jesus’s life and sacrifice, also from Christ’s attitudes too. He was talking sexual matters adultery of the heart. He clearly and emphatically said:
“if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you, for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into Hell.”
How does God see washing our hands?
We are all basically unclean in The Lords eyes and some of us will never become truly holy. Through his endeavours and his solutions, everything must be clean in front of the Lord. God cannot stand in the front of sin and ignore it, or overlook it. This was the reason why Jesus was so emphatic because consequences of sin are dramatic, tragic, and fatal.
Another question:Was Onan’s sin masturbation or sexual immorality?
Deuteronomy 25: 5-10
God punished Onan and killed him, because he broke God’s law and refused to build up his brother’s house. To rise up to his brother in Israel and give him offspring who had died. This is the real reason why God killed Onan not because he spilled his seeds on the ground. This was clear violation of God’s law.
The Bible says many things to warn us:
“Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God.”
1 Thessalonians 4:4
“That each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honour.“
1 Peter 2:11
“Beloved, I urge you as sojourners and exiles to abstain from the passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul.”
Can discharge be like a woman’s period?
The answer is yes because menstruation is also discharge of the body!
They are essentially different things, but can be put in parallel in this discussion. God’s attitude for woman’s discharge is the same for anything that is unclean. What is a woman’s menstruation?
It is death of an unfertilized ovum which the body naturally eliminates blood is not clean. Yes its natural elimination but blood is not clean. Same applies with everything that God said It is unclean.
“If a woman has a discharge, and the discharge from her body is blood, she shall be set apart seven days; But if she is cleansed of her discharge, then she shall count for herself seven days, and after that she shall be clean.”
If it is not a sin we do not need to confess anything to our priest, preacher or to the Lord.?
We do not need to confess because it’s not a sin.
We have to confess everything that is a sin to the High priest Jesus, because we can die in small ones unconfessed. It is not important big or small conscience or not. Small unconfessed are more dangerous than big sins confessed. Criminals which confess sins with bitter tears ( yes he makes conviction) can he be saved from hell. God’s serf which served the Lord many years but did not confess a sin to our High priest Jesus can go to hell. Yet the Lord can intervene with mercy, grace, and His love.
All these things belong to The Old Testament. The New Testament mentions nothing about all this. Today we relate our acts to the New Testament.?
We do not relate to Old Testament. Ideas that belonged under the Old Testament are now old. We are under the new covenant, where all things are different, all has changed and no longer have the same requirements. The New Testament does not mention about these problems which means they are not sins. In plus it’s self-gratification if done personal, without perverting one’s mind, it’s between you and the Lord, and then there is nothing wrong.
Bible said that God is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow.!
He does not change himself like a man. Character is the same and remains the same. The Lord is holiness, justice, righteousness, mercy, and love,to name just a few. The Bible continually speaks about these things. Even His love for the sinner does not cover sin be it large or small. If God does not change His character sure He will not change His laws. Laws reflect character requirements of his law which remain the same. More than that in The New Testament, Jesus says He has not come to change God’s law but to fulfil it, to lift it to the level of perfection. Therefore raising the bar from the level of facts and the level of thoughts. Jesus spoke specifically in this sense in a lot of verses especially in Matthew 5: 21-48.
In The Old Testament someone was a sinner if he did something against the law of God, but in New Testament we are all sinners!
The New Testament, God sent Jesus as a living example for us. Just because we are in the New Testament, we must be more holy and clean in the front of God.! His law still applies, at levels and requirements higher as in Old Testament. “
1 Corinthians 6:19-20
“Or do you not know that your body is the temple of Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.”
How we can speak about The Spirit of God The Holy Spirit to dwell inside us, if we are unclean in facts, thoughts, and speech etc. How can we walk in the Spirit?
In The New Testament it says:
”Beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”
1 Peter 2:5
“Moreover, the faithful man, the child of God, born of the Spirit but not of flesh, has a privileged position in the eyes of God: “You are living stones, being built up asa spiritual house, a holy priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.”
So what does sperm emission mean?
We can say that sperm is creation. But God calls sperm seeds. Maybe we can be confused when the Creator can see every seed as bearing life. Every seed!
Not only the seed that was fecundate, seeds which grow up and become human beings in a form visible to human’s eye. God called Jesus as the seed of woman. Jesus as seed is bare life-like. We can make a comparison with the flower’s seed or of tree’s which has incorporated inside the next creation with all information. The same applies from sperm it is life. Not every seed becomes a being, but every seed is able to!
In this situation discharge, emission’s man or woman, nocturnal, daytime, in bed, car, conscious or not is unclean and is a sin.
Maybe not in our eyes because we can despise life. This is the reason why God asks a sacrifice blood offering as a sin offering and as a burnt offering, offerings only in the situations of sins. Other situations like Deuteronomy 23:13
He ask only that you shall dig with an implement and cover your refuse after going to the toilet.
God’s attitude toward sin?
Everything is unclean and disobedience is a sin in the Lords eyes!
From God’s perspective anything else out of his will is disobedience, Disobedience is considered a sin. This is disrespect and dishonour to God. and we can become separated.
The King Of Kings gives a solution for every transgression in The Old Testament and The New Testament, because He does not forget that we are human beings with limits, and abuse our free will.
Romans 6: 23
“ For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord”
God is holy he requires us to be like him because he made us in his image:
“You shall be holy, for I the Lord your God am holy”,
God’s attitude toward sin unintentionally
When the creator speaks about a sin, he implicitly speaks about atonement by sacrifice. In this situation God ask a sin offering and burnt offering, or a trespass offering.
Offerings with restitution for anything which should not be done and is guilty.
Scripture uses the word atonement. Another word for atonement is penitence and expiation.
God can’t accept emission even in wartime. He said that he will turn away from you if He will find one unclean person from the army as mentioned in Deuteronomy 23: 14
And something interesting that speaks about cleaning in the presence of God.
Deuteronomy 23: 13
“And you shall have an implement among your equipment and when you sit down outside you shall dig with it and turn and cover your refuse.”
With another word God’s attitude toward sin unintentionally is this:
He said it can happen after all he designed us to be sexual creatures, but he regards it as unclean and a sin coming to us with divine solutions. InLeviticus 15:31-32
Godwas firm with his laws and jurisdiction warning mankind of the seriousness with which we must see every sin:
“Thus you shall separate the children of Israel from their uncleanness, lest they die in their uncleanness when they defile my tabernacle that is among them. This is the law for one who has a discharge, and for him who emits semen and is unclean.”
Gods Solution is a sin offering.
In the Old Testament they sacrificed animals using their blood which satisfied the justice of God by substitution. That means instead of one sinner, an innocent animal died in the man’s place. Blood is life, and the substitution was required until Jesus fulfilled the ultimate blood sacrifice. Animals had to be used as mankind is the jewel of creation made in the image of God. Of cause the Lord did not want initially to kill animals. All was created good. Adam and Eve brought sin into the world and everything changed. But through this substitution it satisfied the justice of God and is only remembered by the love of God. People may find this hard, but we have laws, and penalties today which is no different. We were given stewardship over animals yet we kill animals to the point of extinction, so we are actually to blame for God having used blood sacrifice. Follow laws and all would still be good, and we would not be separated from the Lord.
In New Testament God accepts Jesus as a perfect sacrifice once and for all! The death and blood of the innocent Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world:
“Jesus as son of God, through His death, satisfies the justice and righteousness of God and, in the same time, He proves the love of God for every sinner who come back to Him.
In The Old Testament the blood of animals is a sacrifice imperfect So an imperfect transgression repeats itself!
In The New Testament the blood of Jesus is considered by God the ultimate sacrifice one time for ever. God’s attitude toward sin and principles remain the same in The New Testament. He changed the way of atonement and emphasised the importance of Jesus sacrifice in His own eyes. The creator makes from faith in sacrifice of his son the foundation of the New Testament and fundamental condition for salvation of all sinners. The death of Jesus was necessary and sufficient to appease the Lords Laws nothing more and nothing else! This is the reason why Christ ends the laws of sins of atonement required by God in The Old Testament, and the beginning of The new covenant based on acceptance, through faith of Christ’s sacrifice. In The New Testament faith in Jesus’s sacrifice is the only solution given by God to restore the relationship between him and separated mankind.
Since Jesus is God the message conveyed from God to man, ultimately is this:
God Himself died in the place of sinful man.!
Nowadays God speaks like he did a long time ago in Eden:
“don’t eat it, don’t touch it, lest you die.”
Problems starts when we look to where God said do not! like Eve did long time ago. The Bible said:
“woman saw that was good for food and pleasant to the eyes.”
Question: How did she know the Tree was good for food before she ate from it?
But more important for our topic is this idea: pleasant to the eyes!
Our eyes are the most important canal for information. This is the reason why it’s important where we look. This is first of Satan’s strategy and his objective to catch our gaze. Because in this way he catches our attention and our interest. This interest is in relation with our will. Media has developed strategies to attract keeping our attention. Media became powerful because it is able to educate and to form characters. A lot of people watch TV and use the internet for hours. To see what? How much information is about God?
What kind of information do we receive and what does it offer? First of all if we watch in this direction, you will see that it is pleasant to the eyes extending your hand many times and your mind will eat this kind of food. The principle is this: We are what we eat!
What kinds of information comes into our spiritual neck and spiritual stomach?
Our minds collect information like a photo camera storing information in our conscious and subconscious, then manages it in its own way including when we sleep. Then if we watch sex or pornography our mind keeps this information so what do we expect? Will we dream about spiritual things?
The effects are perversion of the soul with consequences arising from this, from immorality to suicide. Because God turns away and we die drowned in our earthly food. With other words, God’s Solution is this:
Turn your look to God to his food Holy scripture, and The Holy Bible and only in this direction! To his offer and His offering. Only in God’s Word is the practical way. He promised you that he will help you. His Word is like bread for your soul and is the bread of life. In plus we can’t control our brain. Our brain is like a computer. Some say we only use about 10% –15% of its capacity. It is extremely complicated. What does this mean? We can’t control our mind, but we can control what comes into it as we were given free will.
Today God ask mankind as he did yesterday in the Garden of Eden where are you?
Not because He doesn’t know where we are hidden, but he wants us to see ourselves, to open our own attitudes in the front of sin to find the light!
But, how can we come to the light?
“Be of good cheer, I have overcome the world”
So we should be encouraged that we can overcome and not be afraid of sexual problems. The question is how? He said:
1 John 4: 4
“He, who is in you is greater than he that is in the world “
So what is inside us if we are holy and born again The Holy Spirit!
What is the work of the Spirit? everything He does is subordinate to God’s plan helping us to be in His image.
In other words alone we cannot do nothing Jesus said:
“Without me you cannot do nothing.”
It’s just a matter of time until you will return again to your old problem. Then it can be much worse! The Holy Spirit has power and is sent specifically to help us, protect us, and to teach us. How? He will take what is the essence of Jesus, and become the embodiment of the Word and clean all our senses. The Spirit makes substantial changes in our core similar to a birth. The Bible speaks of a birth again. We become born again, able to walk in the spirit, not in the flesh!
Sometimes we doubt, but the Bible said what he began He will finish because everything is done by the power of God:
“Who deliver us from evil”
How can we access this power?
This discussion starts, as we said from the birth again. After being born again, The Holy Spirit begins reprogramming. One of the first things that the Spirit does is align our will with the will of God turning our attention towards His Word. Because the Word has power. His Word will work through the power of the Holy Spirit. This is one of the important reasons why the Bible says:
“For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.”
What do we have to do?
His Word tells us to withstand:
“Therefore take up whole armour of God that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all to stand. Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth , having put on the breastplate of righteousness and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.
The Bible speaks in terms of a fight, this fight is not easy. The spirit is in a war with the flesh. Paul himself admits this battle:
“But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into the law of sin captivity to which is in my members.”
“Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit is willing indeed, but the flesh is weak.”
The Bible warns:
“For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live in according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.”
”And do not present your member as instruments of unrighteousness to sin, but present yourselves to God as being alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness to God.”
1 John 2:15-17
“Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world – the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life – is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever“.
1 Corinthians 10:13
”No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.”
Bible said that Jesus gave us:
1 John 4:4
“Behold, I have given him power over all the power of the enemy“
The power that he has given us is rooted in The Word, activated by the Holy Spirit. Firstly when we believe in Him and what He said and when our desire is expressed through prayer, is not hindered by one unconfessed sin. Any unconfessed sin not unwashed in the blood of Jesus, the lamb of sacrifice, is a wall of separation between mankind and God.
We are all sinners
The New Testament is in these terms:
1. Recognise your wrongs as being sins in God’s eyes.
2. Confession of your transgressions to Jesus and ask for forgiveness by his sacrifice and receive, by faith, the washing of your sins in His blood.
3. The interruption of your dirty practice in totality.
4. A new life in Christ through The Holy Spirit.
You must confess your sins to your High Priest Jesus he understands you, he knows what is temptation:
“For He Himself has suffered, being tempted, He is able to aid those who are tempted”
He knows our life and the temptations which we experience.
“Therefore, in all things He had to be made like His brethren, that He might be a merciful and faithful High Priest in things pertaining to God, to make propitiation for the sins of the people.”
“For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathise with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.”
“Who gave Himself for our sins, He might deliver us from this present evil age, according to the will of our God and father.”
“In Him we have redemption through His blood the forgiveness of sins, according to riches of his Grace”
His blood is able to wash away sin. Any sin will be forgiven and relationship with the Almighty is restored, with all the positive consequences which ensue. Only unconfessed sins will remain over us and will separate us from the love of God.
If situations are repeated then you need to watch more closely at your vulnerable points. To turn from all causes and contexts that favour the fall from your own decision. Every day you have to equip yourself with all the armour provided in Ephesians chapter 6.
Your room can be an ideal space to spiritually prepare. Besides the act of reconciliation with God try to focus only on the things of the Lord. Train your mind to spiritual things. Begin with prayer, reading and meditating on scripture. Read Christian books that you carefully choose or any other Christian source, including Christian media. Attend Christian church meetings getting involved in church life, in Christian activities in which you can invest the potential that you have.
Pray more, fast more, and practice spiritual activities etc. Search friends with the same Christian principles as yours. Do what Jesus did! Spend nights like Him then you can see the differences!
And last but not least Biblical advice is this:
It is better to marry than to burn or become like a eunuch for Him. Nocturnal emission, discharge, belongs to the sexual domain. In terms of God all sexual problems can be solved within the family. Any other way of resolving is against His will. This conception goes against modern society which says that marriage is something outdated, love has lost its power, and it is better to try other ways, if it is possible without responsibilities.
There comes a moment of truth when you have to decide to choose, Believe in God in what he said is good for you or believe in what modern society say is best for you.
Biblical advice is this:
Choose God, his point of view about your life and principles including sexual life. Strong arguments recommended that you think about our topic, who knows you better God or the world? The Lord designed you, he knows better than anyone else what it is good for you and what is not good.
God gave mankind a great honour to be like Him. This is ultimately the reason why He wants us to be saints.
We have a pure love, unchanging and strong like his love. Not to be selfish, a self-satisfying desire, but a love that delights in God’s holy things, a self-sacrificing love.
“But God demonstrates His own love toward us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.”